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Barry M. Jensen, age 78, of White River, South Dakota, died on Sunday, Sept. 17, 2023 in Rapid City.

Barry Marlin Jensen was born Aug. 13, 1945, in Kadoka, South Dakota on the son of William and Agnes (Stromer) Jensen of White River. Barry lived his entire life at the Jensen ranch north west of White River with the exception of a few years while he attended college. Barry attended all 12 years of school at White River Public school graduating with his high school class of 1963. He attended college at SDSU for two years before transferring to Kansas State University where he graduated with a degree in science and agriculture.

Barry married his high school classmate and sweetheart Katie (Kathryn Mickel) in 1965 and they lived in Manhattan, Kansas for the next three years while earning their college degrees. Their oldest daughter Wendy was born in Kansas.

Following graduation, they moved back to South Dakota to go into the ranching business with his parents. That next fall the White River School found themselves without a science teacher and so that following year Barry was asked to teach all science classes until a science teacher could be located. Ironically, it took four years. Many of his former students were his good friends. It was during these years that their second daughter Katie Kristine (Krisi) was born in 1970 and their youngest daughter Paige LeAnn was born in 1975.

Barry retired from teaching and returned to ranching full time when his parents began to spend their winters in Arizona. He has continued to run the Jensen Cattle Corporation ranch up to the present day.

Barry was a role model alumnus of White River High School. He served on the Board of Education for a number of years. His name appears on the bronze plaque in the foyer declaring the dedication of this very gymnasium. He organized the first Tiger Booster Club. In 2000 he was instrumental in organizing the school alumni association which is still very active today. He served as its first chairman and in that position, he organized four all school reunions. In 2013 he enjoyed his 50th class reunion when his 1963 classmates were recognized at the spring Commencement.

While Barry and Katie were raising their family, their children were very involved in school and community activities. During those days, Barry volunteered as a church youth group leader, he was Associate Guardian for Bethel 33 of White River Job’s Daughters, judged many rodeo queen contests and announced at the local 4-H rodeos for several years. Back in the day these rodeos lasted from sun up to sun down even utilizing two arenas. He rarely missed a basketball, volleyball, cheerleading, rodeo, track or music event that his daughters participated in.

Barry was very civic minded. He served as a Mellette County Commissioner. He was elected as a legislator representing District 26 to the South Dakota House of Representatives in 2001 and again in 2005 where he served on the Judiciary committee among others.

Barry also enjoyed board work. He felt that a well-organized board, with good managerial leadership, could effectively run a successful company. Barry served on the Board of Directors with the following corporations: Country Pride Coop of Winner, SD, Farmland Industries and the Cooperative Finance Association both of Kansas City, Missouri, Southern Plains Behavioral Health of Winner, SD, Missouri Valley Insurance Company of Burke, SD, and South Dakota organizations of Cooperatives when in 2010 he was inducted into the SD Cooperative Hall of Fame.

Additionally. Barry was appointed by Governor Daugaard to the South Dakota Game, Fish, & Parks and served as commissioner until his commission expired. Barry left footprints all across South Dakota.

Barry is a member of the White River Masonic Lodge #181 of White River, The Order of Eastern Star #126 of White River and the White River United Methodist Church. Barry’s church was very important to him. He served in many different capacities from Ad Council chairman to trustee to singing in the choir. He attended regularly and when he fell ill his church family stepped up to help him celebrate his 78th birthday with cards, pictures and a singing video. He loved his church.

Throughout the years, Barry enjoyed his children and grandchildren’s activities, NASCAR racing, traveling, cruising, motorcycles, flying his airplane, sports, especially Kansas State University sports, and being outdoors on the ranch. Fall was his favorite time of year. Barry and Katie traveled across the pond on three occasions. Once to visit granddaughter Angel who was going to school in London, another time with K-State college friends on a Mediterranean cruise. And in 2017 Barry, Katie and their entire family traveled to Denmark. Arriving in Copenhagen and traveling across Denmark to the ancestral home of his great-grandfather Morten Jensen in Olgod, Denmark.

And another story: Barry’s parents bought him a car when he was near graduation from college at K-State University. Not just any car, but a Pontiac GTO. He got involved with drag racing that GTO and never told his parents. Many years later he fessed up and showed his parents his trophies after it was all said and done.

Barry is survived by his wife Katie of 58 years, three daughters Wendy (Dan) Conrad of Rapid City, Katie (Doug) Bates of Rapid City, and Paige (Bill) Kelly of Milton, Georgia; eight grandchildren; Angel Spreen, Molly (Bruce) Miller, Taylor (Ashley) Bates, Luke (Morgan) Bates, Samantha Bates, Berkeley Bates, William Kelly Jr., Jensen Kelly; other family include Kip Jensen, Beverly Jensen, Mike Dimond and family, Janel Krogman (Robert) and family, Todd Krogman (Amy) and family, Dana Krogman, the extended Lester Stromer family, Bud Stromer, and Kenny Kingsbury families, several cousins and many friends.

Barry was preceded in death by his parents, brother Clifford and sister Janet; niece Lindy Krogman; and nephews Mark, Troy, Bill Jensen.

A Celebration of Life Service was held 1 p.m. Saturday, Sept. 23, at the Community Events Center in White River.

Interment followed at the White River Cemetery.

Memorials may be directed to Mellette County Community Foundation and the American Cancer Society.

He was a South Dakota boy, grew up strong and fast

Dreamed of being a cowboy but dreams, they never last.

He felt free on a horses back, learned to rope and ride,

But he wanted a life all his own, built off love, strength and pride.

He built homes in Wyoming, learned trades as a way of life.

Built bridges in Dallas, and found the love of his life.

Work sent them to LA, they scrapped and scrimped and saved,

Soon three little ones joined the club and a whole new road was paved.

In big sky country they raised their pack,

Things got easy, things got hard, but he always had their backs

The kids grew and along the way they were taught right and wrong,

But all parents will tell you it just doesn’t last that long.

“Make me a promise”, he would say, “It’s the only one I ask,

Promise me you’ll never grow up, you think you’re up to the task?”

Walking, running, driving, love found and lost,

Fishing, laughing, playing, baseballs caught and tossed.

He watched them make their own lives, on their own terms just like him;

Pride seeped from every pore, his cup full to the brim.

He watched them travel, learn, and grow, build families of they’re own,

Experience things he never had, and my, what these three had shown.

Through their lives he lived again, each triumph and each defeat,

The stories they regaled him with he never missed a beat.

He would say, “If I die tomorrow, I wouldn’t regret a bit.

Wrong right or in between, there’s no reason to throw a fit”

“I’ve done a lot, I’ve seen a ton, I’ve lived my life, and had my fun.

But the greatest achievement I ever had, was raising you three and being your dad”.

We never realized till he was gone, too soon, as it always goes

That we three kids were his most prized possession, and through us that love grows.

I’ll think about him everyday, and the lessons that I learned.

About love, life and happiness; respect that’s only earned.

Take pride once more, for when we came up to the end

You weren’t only my Dad, you were also my best friend

I love you Dad, one day we’ll be reunited

To bask once again in the love you provided.

Sleep well now, in peace and without pain

But you won’t leave wholly, no; cause in my heart you will remain.

Arrangements are with Rush Funeral Home of Philip.

Funeral services for Ray Bigelow age 79 of Colome, SD were held on
Monday, September 25th at 11:00 AM at Zion Lutheran Church, Colome, SD. Burial followed in the Colome City Cemetery, Colome, SD. There was a
prayer service Sunday night at 6pm at the church.

Ray Robert Bigelow was born to Robert and Dorothy (Bertram) Bigelow on
August 11, 1944, in Winner, South Dakota.

Ray was an only child. Other than the short time Ray lived on the west
coast when his dad was in the Navy, he lived all his life within a
quarter mile on the same South Dakota road.

He attended Pleasant View Country School in Colome, South Dakota and
graduated from Colome High School. Ray had a desire to go on with
school, but the farm called him home to work.

Growing up Ray enjoyed playing cribbage with his grandfather. In his
later years he still enjoyed playing games and cards, cribbage and pitch
were among his favorites.

On March 15, 1969, Ray married Sharon (Worden) during a snowstorm. The
love they had for each other grew and they were blessed with three
children Kenneth Ray, Beverly Ann, and Barbara Marie. Ray and Sharon
enjoyed 54 years of marriage together.

Ray was a farmer and a rancher. He loved working hard and really loved
the farming side of his work. Ray was not as fond of the cows as he was
the farming.

Ray enjoyed music, especially country and western music. He enjoyed
listening to the music as he was not much of a dancer. Ray also loved
hunting with family and his close friends.

Ray was always willing to help out a friend, neighbor, his many family
members, and his three children. Ray cared deeply for his family,
especially his grandkids. He cherished every moment with them while they
were growing up. Ray will be so missed by Liv, Red, and Bella, as they
had a special bond with their Papa Ray. They always knew how to get a
smile out of him no matter what. Ray had a special relationship to all
of his grandchildren whether near or far.

Due to some health issues, Ray and Sharon moved Golden Prairie Manor in
July of 2022.

Ray passed away at Golden Prairie Manor on September 22, 2023, at the
age of 79 years.

Ray is survived by his wife Sharon; son Kenny (Rebecca) Bigelow,
daughter Bev Beck (special friend Bruce Clark), and daughter Barb (Shay)
Littau; grandchildren: Rebekah Bigelow, Joe (Erin) Beck, Bailey Beck,
Olivia Littau, Keegan Littau, and Bella Littau; step grandchildren:
Chelsea Blickenstaff, Garret Kruback, Kord Littau, and Lane Littau;
great grandchildren Jace and Layke Beck; and step great grandchildren
James, Izebella, and Paislee Blickenstaff.

He is preceded in death by his parents Robert and Dorothy Bigelow and
grandson Kolby Beck.

Mildred Kathyrn (Kathy) Engel, 85, of Winner, SD passed away on Tuesday, Sept. 19, 2023 at the Winner Regional Hospital in Winner, SD.

A memorial service was held on Friday, Sept. 22, at 11 a.m. at the First Christian Church in Winner, SD. Burial was held at 2:15 p.m. at the Evergreen Cemetery in Wood, SD.

Kathy was born on Dec. 11th, 1937 in Presho, SD to William (Slim) and Mildred Bennett. Kathy grew up on a ranch outside of Wood, South Dakota and was also a proud graduate of Wood High School.

Following high school, she attended Southern State College in Springfield, South Dakota. Kathy married Al Meister in 1957. This marriage produced two daughters, Tammy and Misty Meister. Al and Kathy were proud owners of Al’s Body Shop. Al preceded her in death in 1970.

Kathy reconnected with fellow Wood High School graduate, Dale Engel. Kathy and Dale married and enjoyed a long and productive marriage. They partnered with Dale’s son Dean to create Engel Trucking. Dale sadly passed away in 2006.

Kathy wore many hats throughout her life. She was a bookkeeper, educator, caretaker, and librarian. Kathy always had a story to share and some of them were even true!

Kathy was preceded in death by her parents Slim and Mildred, husbands Al Meister and Dale Engel, brothers Bill, Paul, Bob, John, and infant twin sisters June and Jane. She was also preceded in death by her mother-in-law, Barbara Meister.

She is survived by her three siblings Virginia Ensminger of Valentine, NE; Jim Bennett and his wife Marlene, of Gregory, SD; and Ed Bennett and his wife Judy, of Valentine, NE. Kathy is also survived by her daughter and son-in-law Tammy and Jim Trego, of Monument, CO; and daughter Misty Osborn, of Burlingame, KS. Kathy is also survived by her three grandchildren, Jesse Osborn and fiancé Kathy Steck and her daughter Neveah of Topeka, KS; Bayley and Michael Greenberg, of Plano, TX, and Tyler Trego of Boulder, CO. In addition, she is survived by a host of nieces and nephews.